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Do You Ever Feel Like Something Is Missing From Your Life? Does Fear Keep You From Taking Action? Do You Sometimes Feel Like You Are Stuck In A Rut? Are Your Relationships Less Meaningful Than You Would Like? Does Your Career Ever Leave You Feeling Unfulfilled? Does Your Focus On The Past Keep You From Enjoying The Present? Do You Ever Feel Like You Are Trapped By Your Circumstances? If
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hope you will read this entire message, because you may begin to make
some amazing discoveries about yourself. It is my hope that you will realize
you've found a resource that can have a profound impact on your life and empower
you to make your dreams a reality. There is really only one thing any of us truly want. Simply put...we want to "feel good." Sure the specific joys we wish to experience vary from person to person. But we are still after "feelings"...and nothing else. I've spent the last 20 years of my life discovering just what all men and women really want...and how to help you get it. Everything you do in life, you do for one primary reason...so you can feel a certain way. We all want to feel good and avoid feeling bad. The very words you are reading here were written to you by me in order that I might "feel" a sense of meaning, of contribution, of connection with you...and even a sense of significance for having shared with you in my own way. If my words impact your life in a positive way I will enjoy a feeling of success. Isn't it true that everything you do is to create circumstances in your life that will allow you to "feel good" about it? At an even deeper level, the way you feel is determined largely by what you believe. Your beliefs about yourself and about the world determine what you will allow yourself to do and experience. So why am I telling you all this? It seems so obvious. What's the point? The point is that even though we all spend our entire lives doing nothing but seeking to feel pleasure, the pleasure in most of our lives is fleeting. We seem to be paying a very high price for a small reward...always waiting for the "payoff." Get My Free Life Success Newsletter Over the past 20 years I have discovered and created profound ways to access the pure joy of life without all the struggle. I believe that joy and passion are natural...pain takes practice. My name is Jeff Putnam and I am a Master Life & Success Coach. I work one-on-one with people by telephone to identify and remove the obstacles and roadblocks that interfere with their success and happiness in life. In a coaching relationship with me you will quickly learn to identify "exactly" what prevents you from having the life you desire...and we will rapidly change it together. The truth is that 90 plus percent of success in anything is based on your psychology...your ability to control your emotions. Most people exert 90 plus percent of their time focusing on the mechanics...the "what to do" of life. And they spend 10 percent or less on the psychology of life...mastery of their emotions. For instance, you can have a membership to your local health club, be an expert on how the equipment works, and have plenty of time to take care of your body. But if you cannot get yourself to go to the gym, what is the point in any of it? With me as your Coach, you will have a great resource in your corner. Our relationship will definitely be unlike any relationship you have ever had in your life. Imagine having someone to speak with on a regular basis who is an expert in the psychology of success...someone who's primary objective is to guide you through the process of making your life a celebration and a masterpiece...by training you to be in complete control of what you think and how you feel. In one of our very first sessions together, you will discover how to instantly create the "feelings" you've been working so hard to experience. And that's just the beginning. Our coaching sessions will be packed with profoundly effective strategies and tools that will take your life to the next level and beyond. Because I am a master of the psychology of success, I can coach you to success in just about any endeavor. Remember...90 plus percent of success in anything comes down to how you feel about it...what you believe...the questions you ask...how you focus, etc. Most people are more committed to their strategies in life (even when they don't create desired results) than they are to having what they really want. For example, "Rather than going into business for myself...I'll just keep working at this job I hate." This is most often due to one of two things. Either they don't know what else to do (they only have the one strategy) or they fear the risks of doing something different. Coaching addresses both of these issues. Rather than getting you to step out beyond your comfort zone, my purpose will be to enlarge your comfort zone so that new actions are total pleasure for you. Once you have overcome the fear, finding new strategies is simple. Below you will find details about some areas of life where I can empower you to create the life you've always wanted. Fear is the biggest obstacle to your success in life. Your fears are based on your experiences of life. More specifically, they are rooted in the meaning you have given the experiences of your life. In truth, the greatest obstacle to having what you want in life is your story about why you can't have it. This story you keep telling yourself reinforces the belief and makes the fear feel more and more real. In order to remove the fear that holds you back, it really isn't necessary to know "why" you have a fear or "what" story you've been telling yourself about it. It is really a simple a matter of changing the way you communicate with yourself. The greatest challenge is that you have become so congruent in your communication about your fears. Your words, your voice and your body all match when you think about what you fear. It is this congruent way you communicate this to yourself that makes it feel true. One simple key to changing how you feel lies in changing the way you communicate with yourself at an unconscious level. Throughout my experience as a coach, I have consistently been able to eliminate fears in one or two sessions. Phobias are just "big" fears and can frequently be removed in 30-40 minutes. Imagine what you will accomplish when you have no fear. What will you do first? Get My Free Life Success Newsletter Discover What You REALLY WANT What do you really want? For some people this is a difficult question. While it is clear that you want to feel pleasure. It may be less clear what you would like to experience or accomplish during your life. If you are unclear about what you want, one of the main reasons you are not sure is because you keep telling yourself you don't know. One big key to mastering your emotions is learning what to ask and tell yourself on a consistent basis. If you continually tell yourself you don't know what your want, how likely are you to discover what it is? As your personal coach, I will help you to become very specific in determining where you are strong and how to use your strengths to identify precisely what would add the most passion to your life. If you were certain about what you wanted most...what would it be? Maximize Your Ability To INFLUENCE Influence may be the most important skill in all of life. Your ability to influence yourself and others will determine what you get in life. Our coaching relationship will begin with learning to influence yourself. Most people are at the mercy of their beliefs and emotions. You will learn to change your beliefs and emotions so they serve you in creating the life of your dreams. Your ability to influence others is also vital. If you are in a relationship with another human being, you "must" learn to communicate in ways that allow you to influence the thoughts and behaviors of others. This begins with knowing how to create instant rapport with people. In life, you cannot help anyone unless you can establish trust in the relationship. When I am your coach, you will learn this skill and immediately gain the ability to connect with others on a deeper level. If you wish to influence others to take action (like is sales, for instance) you will gain many profound skills that will allow you to do more business and have more fun than you ever thought possible. This goes way beyond creating rapport. As a coaching client you will learn how to immediately know what is driving the behaviors of others. You will know what they desire most and what they fear most. You will know how to connect with them in a way that makes them fascinated with you...and you will be able to easily influence them. What will you contribute to the world when you can influence anyone you meet? Get My Free Life Success Newsletter Relationships are everything in life. Our relationships with ourselves, with others and with things are what make life interesting. The most effective way to create great relationships with others is to improve yourself. Since most of us are caught up in fear and self-doubt, people are amazed by those who show great personal strength. When you know who you are and have let go of all fear, you will have a profound quantity of emotional energy for others. This energy is very attractive. It is amazing to me how often my clients tell me about the people they are attracting into their lives...everywhere they seem to go. This holds true for intimate relationships, friendships and business associates. If you are having challenges with relationships at work or would just like more friends, coaching will give you the resources you need to read others and establish trust. If you are in an intimate relationship, coaching will give you the skills and understanding you need to feel more deeply connected and meet the needs of your partner like never before. You will learn to identify your partner's love language and give him/her exactly what he/she needs to feel significant and loved. If you are still looking for someone special, we will remove the obstacles that have kept you from finding them and give you the inner strength to locate the person of your dreams quickly. Remember, success in all areas of life is 90 plus percent psychology...emotional. When you are really ready for a relationship...it will come. What will your life be like when it is overflowing with deeply fulfilling relationships? Double or Triple The Success Of Your BUSINESS Success in business is also mostly based in emotion. Sure, there is lots to do. But superior control of your emotions will allow you to achieve far more in less time by avoiding costly mistakes and poor decisions. As your business coach I will help you to quickly identify the beliefs and strategies that are holding you back. We will also implement methods to replace your disempowering strategies with new beliefs and emotions that will dramatically effect your bottom line. How much does the way you feel effect your ability to influence others? Business is largely about influence. When you choose me as your coach, you can know that there is someone in your corner to hold you accountable for your ultimate outcomes. I will be the one person in your business who you can "always" count on to tell you the truth and keep you focused on what is most important to your success. As your coach, I will give you insights that will profoundly impact your ability to make quality decisions and take decisive actions. Business success is also dependent in large part on your ability to identify and utilize the right kind of partners and associates. One of the greatest challenges of business owners and managers is the need to be in control. This leads to trying to do everything yourself. Those who continue down this path soon realize that their success is limited by their own time and talent that only goes so far. Great success comes from finding the best allies who you can transfer the work to. On our coaching calls, we will identify exactly what needs to be leveraged to someone else and how to pay for it. There are no limits to your success when you partner with the right people. Finding partners and employees who excel where you are weak will make your business grow faster, stronger and with a lot less stress. How much faster will your business grow when you are spending the majority of your time doing what you do best...and enjoy most? Get My Free Life Success Newsletter Confidence is simply your level of certainty that you can achieve or do something. Most people derive the majority of their confidence about themselves from the opinions of others. This is a risky approach because it allows you very little control. Some get their confidence from references in their life that hold up the belief that they are okay. While this approach is better than relying on others, it is still subject to problems as all people begin with no experiences...not to mention the fact you have to wait until you have achieved, to feel confident about it. If you have a desire to be "successful," for instance, and you decide that you will be successful when you have $1,000,000 in net worth, what does that make you now. In other words, what are you if you don't have the $1,000,000? If you have to have the $1,000,000 to feel successful, how likely are you to ever achieve the goal? If you feel like a failure now, how will you ever get yourself to take the actions necessary to achieve the circumstances so you can feel like a success? This is a problem that most people face. The solution is to feel successful in advance...before you have the experience of "success" or whatever you want. If you feel successful in advance, will you be more or less likely to achieve the experience of success? More likely...of course. By the way, I am "not" talking about pumping yourself up or "faking it 'til you make it." I'm talking about creating feelings that are as real as any you have ever felt. One of the greatest benefits of coaching with me is that you will discover how to create the emotions you wish...now...without relying on the circumstances to be there first. In truth, you don't really need the circumstances to feel the emotions you desire. This is just a story you've been telling yourself. You say, "I'll feel successful when I..." In truth, success is an emotion...not dependent on an experience. What will you achieve when you have absolute confidence in your ability to succeed? Learn To TAKE ACTION CONSISTENTLY Every action you have ever taken in your life has been motivated by the way you feel in that moment. Unfortunately, most people are motivated more by pain than by the pleasure of achieving what they want. Actually, one primary reason people don't have what they want in their lives is because they don't give themselves permission to have them. They say, "I can't be that thin," or "It isn't appropriate for me to show that much excitement. I have to contain myself and behave like an adult." The moment you are able to give yourself permission to have what you desire, your motivation will arrive. This is very easy to achieve and it will be a very liberating experience. While pain is great for getting you to get off your butt and start taking action, a clearly defined purpose that represents tons of pleasure is what will keep you moving. In our coaching partnership, we will work together to clarify exactly what you want and all the joy you will derive from having it. I will also teach you a simple skill that will allow you to become motivated to do things within seconds. You will learn to train your unconscious mind to focus on the results you want rather than the actions you must take to get them. What will you achieve when you know you have the self-discipline to follow through? Get My Free Life Success Newsletter Dissolve The STRESS From Your Life Stress, overwhelm and other unpleasant emotions can be significantly reduced when you understand how these emotions are created in your body. Believe it or not, stress and overwhelm are your "strategies" for dealing with the challenges of your life. When there is more to do than can be done, you make a decision, conscious or unconscious, to feel stressed about it. "This is just too much for me to take. I'm going to go crazy with all this work." You make yourself feel stressed as your strategy for getting all the work done. The ironic thing is that your strategy contributes to the problem because under stress you are less resourceful, less creative and less energetic. This is true for many areas of your life. Very often peoples' strategies for solving problems are the very cause of the problem. Of course an organized plan will make your life easier. You will learn a method of thinking that will allow you to simplify your life by eliminating many unnecessary actions that you are taking every day. As we work together, you will constantly be reminded when you are using strategies that don't support you. We will retrain you to feel "resourceful" under challenging circumstances that used to cause you stress. What will your life be like without the emotions that have kept you stuck? Create FINANCIAL ABUNDANCE In life you tend to get whatever you expect. Most people are trying to make a living and that is just what they do. Others expect abundance to flow in their lives and it does. Your beliefs about money will greatly effect how much you have. More than likely you have many conflicting beliefs about money. It is my belief that the best way to financial abundance and security is through multiple streams of passive income. True financial abundance can only be achieved by creating multiple sources of income that come to you regardless of the time you devote to them. While there will be time involved in getting them established, the dividends will be paid to you for a lifetime. This coaching website is one of several streams of income I've developed for myself. The others require a total of about 2 hours of my time per week. If you are interested in creating new sources of income, I am happy to share my experience with you. Of course, your ability to control how you feel will be the biggest part of this. What to do becomes obvious when you are master of your emotions. There is always a way. What will you do with your total financial freedom? Get My Free Life Success Newsletter Your health "must" be the most important asset you own. If you don't have your health, you don't have a life. Motivation is a real key in this area. Every day you are bombarded by offers of fad diets or exercise programs that claim to give you the body of a super-model without doing anything at all. But the truth is that happiness is the only thing in life that's free. The rest you have to work for. Nearly any exercise program will work for you if you stick with it long enough. Your body can't resist forever. The challenge is that most people can't get themselves to stick with the program. This happens for a couple of reasons. First of all, they have mixed feelings about being fit. "What will happen to me if I'm thin? I've never dealt with that before. How will I be treated? What will people think?" If your words, your voice and your body don't all match when you talk to yourself about your desire to be in great shape, you will default to staying as you are. You can't just "fake it 'til you make it." Deep down you know what the truth really is...regardless of what you tell yourself. You need someone who won't let you off the hook if you violate your commitments. You need someone who will remind you what it will cost you if you give up and who will remind you how amazing you will feel when you've succeeded. Another reason this is a challenge for most people is because they don't have a clear vision of what they really want, what it will be like. The reasons why you want to be healthy are far more important than how you will get there. For most people, this area of their life requires a shift in identity. You must change who you believe you are and what you deserve. The moment this happens, looking in the mirror will be a very different experience. You'll think, "Who is that? It can't be me!" The moment this happens...you've won! You deserve to be in great shape. If this is an area where you could use a boost, you've come to the right place. How great will you feel when you've mastered your body once and for all? My Life Is Already Great...How Can I HAVE EVEN MORE? As a coach I often get clients who are tired of getting the short end of the stick. However, I've also had many clients who want to take their great lives to the next level. These people truly understand the value of coaching. They are people about which others would think, "Why do they need a coach?" If you are living the life of your dreams and are wise enough to know there is always another level, I would be honored to give you the benefit of my experience. We are truly kindred spirits. As we work together we will fine-tune the very beliefs and strategies that have made your life such a success. There is never any chance of running out of coaching issues because you are always becoming more in the process. We will look deep into the psychology of your strategies to clearly identify exactly what has made you so fulfilled. This might surprise you. Then we will look at the areas that are not as good as others and identify how you can apply your strengths to the areas that are still works in progress. In truth, we all have areas that are not quite up to par. Some people are great in business, but their relationships suffer. Others have their relationships in order, but they have no financial success. The key is to make your emotional strength the primary area of life and build a strong foundation. If you have great certainty within yourself you will never go without in life. What will your life be like at the next level? What will you contribute then? Get My Free Life Success Newsletter What Coaching Is Not If you've read all the way to this point, you are clearly a candidate for coaching. There must be part of your life that needs some work, maybe a few areas. At this point it is important to explain what coaching is not. Coaching is not therapy. While much of what we will do together may be therapeutic, it is not therapy. Therapy deals with the past, while coaching is about your present and future. Therapy focuses on the story of your life. Coaching considers the story to be a big part of the problem and ignores it for the most part. Therapy asks, "What's wrong?" and "How does that make you feel? Coaching asks, "What do you really want?" Both are confidential. This relationship we will share, may be one of the most profound experiences of your life. You will make some remarkable discoveries about yourself and others while you create more joy in your life than you ever thought possible. It is my dream that the contribution I make to your life will be as impactful as it has been to the hundreds of others I've had the privilege to coach. Please take another look at what one client had to say about his very first personal coaching session. "It's been one week since my first session and I still can't believe how much better I feel about my life. The technique you taught me for turning my anxiety and fear into peace and joy has worked beyond my wildest expectations. Last week was the most enjoyable week I have had in at least ten years... probably twice that long. All the things that usually drag me down were suddenly unable to phase me. I never would have believed that direct control over my emotions was possible at all, if I hadn't experienced it. Over the years, the books and tapes I've studied have left me thinking, "if only I tried a little harder, listened to the tapes a few more times, worked through all the workbooks more thoroughly, I bet some of this stuff would help me." But Jeff, the hour you spent with me last Tuesday morning on the phone has changed me entirely… from a cowering servant of fear and anxiety into a free and happy human being. If this isn't a miracle, then it must be that you've shown me something very fundamental, profound and practical about the inner workings of emotion, and how easy it is to feel good about life." Your New Friend, Roger Morehouse, Pathologist I Don't Coach Everyone Who Applies I feel deeply blessed for having been given the skill and opportunity to contribute to people in such a meaningful way. However, I don't coach everyone who applies. It is important that my skills and personality match with your needs. Many of the most successful and fulfilled people in the world know the value of coaching. It takes a remarkable person to seek out the assistance of a personal coach or mentor. Wherever you are in your life, if you recognize that a coach can give you the edge you've been looking for, I will be happy to consider you as a possible client. Get My Free Life Success Newsletter 100% Totally Risk-Free Guarantee I
have absolute confidence in my ability to impact the quality of your life in an
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risk-free opportunity. When you begin your coaching, if you are not blown away
by the power of what you experience in your very first session, I will give you
a full refund and wish you well. 847-793-0146 Thanks so much for taking the time to read about my coaching program today. As you choose to take your life to the next level, I promise to give you my very best from start to finish.
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